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10/28/2019

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Yakapsul. Kispirin. These are my and Lucy’s favorite maintenance pills. If you see us strolling around a mall, chances are you will see my arm draped on her shoulder. I am delighted if we were told “Awwww. How sweet.” Bur I would be puzzled if someone says, “Ang sweet pa kayo” (notice the pa), as if the longer one is married, the less affection is shown.
 
I know, I know, touch may not be your love language. But do you know there is this thing called skin hunger? It’s the need for physical human contact. Consider this all-too-real scenario. Lonely mother misses her husband’s caresses. So she satisfies her skin hunger by cradling her baby or hugging her kids. Result: she attaches herself more to the kids, but becomes more aloof from the husband.
 
When you and your spouse were still courting, I bet you were conscious about where you put your hands, lest you get carried away by fleshly temptations. But now you are married, you’re free to cuddle, snuggle, and smooch. As one American missionary once told me. “I’ve been in the field away from my wife for so long, I can’t wait to be home and squeeze her eyes out.” A boa constrictor came to my mind, but you get his point.
 
This is excerpted from my article The Wall written for FamilyWise Asia. See the original here http://www.familywiseasia.com/the-wall/

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Jenny
12/9/2019 07:56:47 pm

Thank you for the great advice Nelson. Touch touch touch it is! Will keep this in mind.

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nelson
12/14/2019 10:48:26 am

Thank you for the comment.

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Jenny
12/14/2019 10:50:28 am

Great job!




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