I've been wallowing in regret for leaving a career I've built to pursue a job that I thought would be more financially rewarding. Everything in your book really helped me put things in perspective, thank you so much. (K) |
Your writing about pain, disappointment and hurt is something that I can empathize with. It's almost as if somebody read my thoughts and was able to put into words the sadness I feel. (V) |
Very knowledgeable in matters about love and life. It was an honor to know him and meet him… I am very grateful to God that He allowed me to cross paths with Sir Nelson. He is not only a speaker nor a mentor, but also a friend... (M) |
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Hi, I'm Nelson! Welcome to my site!
I'm a published author, speaker, and trainer. But what I love most is listening to people. It's because I do know that life can be tough, even downright unfair. I have been there. I can’t promise you solutions, let alone miracles. But we can journey together on-line and through the books, speeches and workshops I give about relationships, career and spirituality. You talk. I listen. |
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WRITING TO ENCOURAGE
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I've published ten books to date. One of them, The Honeymoon Never Ends, won the 2012 Gintong Aklat Award for the inspirational category. Some of the anthologies I contributed to are: He Says, She Says and What God Says (with Dr. Harold Sala), Legacy: From One Man to Another, and Passion and Power: Pulpit Messages from the Filipino Heart. I also penned a Sunday column of the Philippine STAR, 'Career Roadmap' for nine strong years, and contributed to periodicals and magazines such as Evangelicals Today, Business Mirror, People’s Journal Tonight, Light Touch, MOMS and FamilyWise. |
"I chanced upon your book at a time I am experiencing the darkest and loneliest time of my life. As I read through the pages of your book, I felt like you were speaking directly to me while looking into my eyes... that you exactly know my story… a story I never dared share even to the closest people in my life. Thank you for allowing yourself to be an instrument of God's love and mercy to minister to millions of people like me." – K
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"A no-nonsense book and a must-have for any working employee, Soaring High: Your Flight Plan for Your Best Career Ever! gives a second chance to those who desire a new heart and passion in their careers. Nelson Dy arms the interested reader with renewed hope as he tells story after story from memorable experiences of his or of those from whom he knew."
- Hazel Natorilla |
"Nelson very realistically confronts the greatest monster that couples face - selfishness, the founding member of the AMYF Club (After Me You are First). Nelson lays open his soul, telling you of his struggles with his old nature and how he learned the key to having a marriage where the honeymoon never ends!"
- Harold J. Sala, Ph.D. |
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SPEAKING TO empower
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My passion is to give talks and workshops to share real-life, make-sense principles on career, relationships, communication, spirituality, purpose and more!
Let me know how I can help. You talk, I listen. |
Thank you for sharing your experiences and your knowledge of God’s Word. I wanted to let you know how your message that Sunday has deeply touched one life, mine. I am sure you have touched so many more. God bless you and your family and may you continue to affect lives with your words. |
book reviewTake Heart: Letters of Faith, Hope and Love
CSM Publishing 2019
This book collects short letters, written by 30 millennials for an imagined millennial going through issues such as joblessness, unanswered prayer, heartbreaks and more. I found this book beautiful for three reasons. Click here to know why.
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TASKS TOGETHER
Sure, a spouse can have his or her own thing. Lucy relaxes by gardening while I unwind with DC Comics. But there should be >
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talkThere was a time when Lucy and I take our Sunday breakfast with the menu being sunny-side up, daing na bangus… and newspapers. Yes, we used to eat in silence as we poured through opinion columns. Later, I realized how >
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TouchDo you know there is this thing called skin hunger?
It’s the need for physical human contact. Consider this all-too-real scenario. Lonely mother misses her husband’s caresses. So she satisfies her skin hunger by cradling her baby or hugging her kids. Result: she attaches herself more to the kids, but becomes more aloof from the husband. > |
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WHAT KEEPS A MARRIAGE TOGETHER?A relationship is like a car engine. It needs lubrication. I had a friend who used to be a prosperous businessman. His car was a fancy Volvo. Then he fell into hard times.
He still drove the Volvo to get around, but, being financially tight, he skimped on regular tune-ups. The time came that the engine oil got so dirty that it damaged the pistons. His car, now useless, sits rusting in his garage. > |
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Give your best now!Career October 7, 2019
A teacher wondering whether you are making an impact on your students? A salesman struggling to clinch that next deal? A call-center agent enduring the grind of the graveyard shift? Whatever your status, take heart. Give your best today. Excellence builds upon itself and soon, it won’t go unnoticed. > |
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Happiness is a by-productHappiness October 4, 2019
Chase happiness itself and it will elude you. Do something meaningful for others and happiness will embrace you. > |
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The hungry years (Part 2)Purpose October 2, 2019
Hungry years can actually save us from accumulating stuff, which, in turn, demand much time, expense and effort to maintain. More importantly, we can stop focusing on things and start cherishing relationships. > |
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The hungry years (part 1)Purpose September 30, 2019
Most of us go through times of tightness and inflexibility. We feel trapped and constrained, then frustrated, depressed or angry. I call this period the hungry years. It may be in our finances, career, love life, or physical health. > |
